Kayla Sarhai x Oshun Yemi
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I’m Kayla Sarhai, (pronounced Kay-lah-sah-rra-ee—don’t forget to roll that R!).
I'm here to help you reconnect with yourself, prioritize self-care, and create a life that feels more aligned.
What brings you here?
A lil bit about me..
I’m just a woman crafting the life of her dreams—one bold, beautiful, intentional step at a time.
As a Gemini with a flair for expression, a tendency to overshare, and a deep love for dancing to my own rhythm, I proudly wear many hats: beauty professional, confidence + clarity coach, and lifelong student of the connection between the mind, body, spirit, and the way we experience our lives— most importantly, daughter, mom, sister, and wife.
Balancing all these roles has taught me something powerful: the importance of putting myself first, not out of selfishness, but to serve from a place of wholeness.
My work is rooted in a simple belief:
Look good, feel good, and live even better.
This where beauty meets balance—and self-care becomes a way of coming back to yourself.
Beauty is more than how you look & Balance is more than having it all figured out.
I believe both begin with being present enough to hear yourself, giving yourself permission to experience pleasure, and intentionally growing into the woman you’re becoming.
Whether you’re looking for support, inspiration, a little beauty, or simply a reminder that you’re not meant to do it all perfectly, there’s a place for you here.
WHERE ARE YOU RIGHT NOW?
There's no one way to find your balance.
Maybe you're looking for inspiration, a moment to yourself, a little clarity, or an experience that helps you feel like you again.
Wherever you are in your journey, there's a place for you here.
01 — I’M READY TO INVEST IN MYSELF
Start with the book.
If Rain Does Not Fall, Corn Will Not Grow.
Growth doesn't happen without nourishment.
Sometimes we get so caught up in becoming who we want to be that we forget to care for who we are right now.
This book is an invitation to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and explore what balance means in your everyday life.
Through personal reflections, intentional practices, and guided journaling, you'll explore presence, pleasure, and personal development—one day at a time.
Read it at your own pace. Reflect on what resonates. Return whenever you need a reminder.
You don't have to have it all figured out to begin.
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02 — I’M STILL EXPLORING
Subscribe to the Balance Blog.
Sometimes you need a little inspiration. Sometimes you need a new perspective. And sometimes you just need a reminder that you're not the only one figuring it out.
The Balance Blog is where I share reflections on self-care, confidence, relationships, beauty, boundaries, motherhood, and the everyday process of becoming.
A little wisdom, a little real life, and a lot of intentional living.
Come read, reflect, and take what you need.
No pressure to change overnight. Just an opportunity to become a little more present, experience a little more pleasure, and grow with intention.
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Because growth doesn't always require a big breakthrough. Sometimes it begins with a new thought.
03 — I WANT TO FEEL GOOD, TOO
Book a Beauty Experience.
Because sometimes self-care looks like a conversation.
And sometimes it looks like washing your hair, getting your nails done, enjoying a little quiet, and allowing someone else to take care of you for a change.
At O.Yemi'z Beautique, beauty meets balance through intentional self-care experiences designed to help you pause, receive, and reconnect.
From crown care and beauty rituals to more immersive experiences that combine self-care with personal development, there's room to make your appointment something meaningful.
Come as you are. Leave feeling a little more like yourself.
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Because caring for yourself isn't extra. It's part of the balance.
04 — I’M READY FOR SOMETHING MORE
Let's start with a conversation.
Maybe you're navigating a transition, craving clarity, reconnecting with your confidence, or ready to become more intentional about the life you're creating.
Or maybe you don't know exactly what you need yet.
That's okay, too.
Your complimentary Connection Call is an opportunity for us to get to know each other, explore where you are, and talk about what balance could look like for you.
We'll discuss your intentions, what you've been navigating, and how personalized support through Meditation & Manifestation Coaching may help you move forward.
No pressure. No perfect words. No need to have it all figured out.
Just a genuine conversation and an opportunity to explore what's possible.
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35 minutes · Complimentary · Virtual
Sometimes the first step toward change is simply having the conversation.
05 — I JUST WANT TO HANG OUT
Come see life in balance.
Balance doesn't always look polished.
Sometimes it looks like family life, figuring things out as you go, getting dressed when you almost stayed home, laughing at yourself, listening to the wisdom passed down by your abuelitas, or finding beauty in the middle of the mess.
Come follow along as I share the real-life pieces of balancing:
Family. Beauty. Spirituality. Confidence. Community. Self-care. Giving back.
You'll see the imperfect moments, the outfits, the lessons, the laughs, and the everyday reminders that you can feel beautiful while you're still becoming.
And yes—sometimes the outfit comes together because abuelita had something to say.
Follow along, get inspired, and watch me figure out my own version of balance in real time.
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@OYEMIKSARHAI · @OYEMIZBEAUTIQUE@COMIDACRUZ · @MAMIYOLYSCLOSET
YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHOOSE JUST ONE.
You can read.
You can reflect.
You can invest in yourself.
You can receive.
You can rest.
You can get dressed up and feel yourself.
You can dream bigger.
You can grow.
You can change your mind.
You can come back.
Balance isn't a destination. It's a relationship with yourself that you get to keep nurturing.
Wherever you are right now, there's a way to begin.
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Here's to becoming more present, experiencing more pleasure, and intentionally growing into the woman you're becoming.
Welcome to where beauty meets balance.
OYEMI KSARHAIHere to bless your crown.
Explore My Journey: A Living Resume Told Through True Stories with a Touch of Magic
QUEEN KAYLA : MAY 2025(2008) - PRESENT
In a bright little studio tucked behind a blooming garden of wildflowers and lavender, Queen Kayla started every morning with a ritual—coffee or tea, quiet meditation, a few stretches, and a look in the mirror. Not to fix anything, but to affirm everything.
"You’re powerful, you’re present, and you’re prepared," she’d whisper to her reflection.
Queen Kayla, didn’t stumble into this calling. The seed was planted in 6th grade, when a quiet girl named Lily handed her a folded note with the words: “Can you help me be like you?”
At the time, Kayla didn’t fully understand the impact of that moment. She thought Lily just meant outfits or hair advice. But what Lily really saw was light—confidence, creativity, and comfort in her own skin. That note was the first time Kayla realized she had something special to offer.
Years later, that spark grew into a full-blown mission.
As a stylist, Kayla noticed that her clients often stayed long after their appointments, sharing struggles and seeking more than just beauty tips. Her chair became a sacred space, and her listening heart became her greatest tool. She knew then she was meant to offer not just a makeover—but a mindset shift.
O.Yemi'z Beautique was born, blending beauty, self-care, and soulful meditation and manifestation conversations. Her sessions weren’t just about appearance—they were rituals. Candles, music, oils, journaling, affirmations written in lipstick on the mirror. Every detail was intentional. Every experience was a reflection.
Women came to her feeling lost, burnt out, or unseen. They left glowing with direction, clarity, and a sense of ownership over their lives.
One day, years into her journey as a guide, she received a message: “I don’t know if you remember me, but I was the girl who passed you a note in 6th grade. Just wanted to say… thank you. I see now that you were always meant to shine—and help others shine too.”
Queen Kayla smiled. She remembered.
Her work wasn’t just about glow-ups—it was about guiding people back to the truth of who they are. Every birthday, she offered her signature session, “The Year You Bloomed,” a blend of reflection and celebration that helped women honor the past and envision the future.
People asked her secret, and she always smiled.
“The mirror tells the truth,” she’d say, “but I teach you how to see the truth as beautiful.”
And from that first elementary school note to every woman who sat in her chair, Queen Kayla lived her mission: reflecting potential, purpose, and possibility—one heart at a time.
My Approach: Presence. Pleasure. Personal Development.
PRESENCE
Come back to yourself.
Life gets loud. Responsibilities, expectations, relationships, motherhood, work, and the constant noise around us can make it easy to lose touch with what you actually think, feel, need, and desire.
Together, we create space to quiet the noise, become more aware of what’s happening within you, and reconnect with the present moment.
Presence is learning to hear yourself again.
PLEASURE
Reconnect with what feels good.
Pleasure isn't indulgence. It’s information.
It can teach you about your boundaries, desires, needs, values, and what genuinely nourishes you.
Through intentional self-care and deeper exploration of what brings you joy, ease, confidence, and connection, I help you give yourself permission to experience more of what feels good—without guilt.
Pleasure is learning to honor what nourishes you.
PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Grow into the woman you’re becoming.
Once you can hear yourself and honor yourself, you can begin to intentionally shape what comes next.
We explore the mindset, boundaries, confidence, relationships, goals, habits, and decisions that support the life you want to create.
Personal development is becoming more intentional about who you are and how you live.
This work may be for you if…
You’re craving more clarity but don't know where to start.
You’re tired of constantly pouring into everyone else and want to reconnect with yourself.
You want stronger boundaries and a healthier relationship with your needs and desires.
You’re navigating a transition and need space to process what’s next.
You want to feel more confident in your voice, choices, relationships, or direction.
You’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start creating a life that feels more like you.
You don't necessarily need a complete life overhaul.
Sometimes, you simply need a safe space to pause, get honest, and hear yourself again.
How I Can Support You
My coaching sessions are intentionally personal. There isn't a one-size-fits-all formula for becoming your best self.
Depending on where you are, our work may include:
Clarity + Confidence
Boundaries + Self-advocacy
Self-care + Pleasure
Personal Growth + Intentional Goal Setting
Relationships + Communication
Life Transitions + Reinvention
Mindset + Subconscious Patterns
Beauty, Identity + Self-Expression
Creating more balance between who you are and everything you do
Some sessions may give you clarity around one specific situation.
Others may open the door to deeper transformation.
We start where you are.
THE BALANCED BEAUTY : MARCH 2022 - PRESENT
Once upon a very real time, there lived a woman called The Balanced Beauty—known not for being perfectly put together, but for making everything look effortless. She wore many hats: a business owner, a partner, a mother, a friend, a leader, a healer, a creator. She wore them with grace… until she couldn’t anymore.
One day, she looked in the mirror and didn’t recognize herself. Not because her face had changed, but because her light had dimmed. She wasn’t dressing up out of joy anymore—she was getting dressed in survival. Her rituals became routines. Her joy became duty. Her dreams? On the back burner behind everyone else’s needs.
She smiled on the outside, but inside she was spread too thin. She said yes when she meant no. She poured out her energy like water with no cup to catch it. And then… she hit a wall. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually—rock bottom.
It wasn’t loud. It wasn’t dramatic. It was still. A stillness that finally forced her to listen.
And in that silence, she heard something deep—her own voice. Faint, but steady. It led her back to something she had forgotten: her energy. Her essence. Her balance.
That’s when she discovered the chakra system—not as a trend, but as a map.
She studied. She healed. She cried. She meditated. She wrote.
She started at the root: safety, security, grounding.She moved to the sacral: pleasure, flow, feminine energy.She healed the solar plexus: power, confidence, worth.She opened her heart: love, forgiveness, connection.She spoke up: clear, bold, honest.She trusted her intuition: her inner knowing returned.She aligned with spirit: surrender, purpose, peace.
She didn’t just learn balance—she became it.
From that journey rose something bigger than herself: a guide. A lifeline. A soft place to land for anyone who had ever felt like they were doing it all and losing themselves in the process.
She called it “O.Yemi'z Balance Blueprint”—not because she had it all figured out, but because she finally knew how to realignwhen she didn’t.
The guide became a tool for women to track their energy, understand their seasons, heal from burnout, and remember that they’re never alone. It included chakra reflections, journal prompts, self-checks, rituals, and reminders that it’s okay to rest, to ask for help, to be human.
The Balanced Beauty was no longer the woman who wore every hat to prove her worth. She wore only what honored her energy, her soul, her truth.
And she made it her mission to remind others:
You don’t have to do it all to be worthy.You don’t have to be everything to everyone.You just have to be aligned—with yourself.
Now, when someone feels off, overwhelmed, or lost, they find their way to her guide. And every page whispers: You are supported. You are enough. You are allowed to come back to balance—again and again.
